DO BEFORE YOU DIE !!!!!
05 Jan 2010 22 Comments
“GET HOLD OF YOURSELF”….swami vivekanand
every day we –THE YOUTH gets an inspirational dose of speech from various sources {media, politicians ,mzees,our parents and teachers} , made with a motive to make us realise that WE are the essence of this developing country….our nation “INDIA”.
Undoubtedly no one among us would disagree with this view…yes …WE are the life of our country …WE are the engine of the vehicle made to drive our motherland towards development …..but unfortunately
WE are just engines and not the fuel of this vehicle …..
WE are bestowed with uncountable power and potential but still WE are powerless…..
After some 16 years all o f sudden a file of case from the plethora of ‘under process’ cases was reopened hitting all the headlines of media…..”ruchika case”
An extract describing Ruchika case {in brief}- a 14 year girl was molested by then Haryana IGSPS rathore in panchkula in 1990.THREE years later she commited suicide which her friend and case witness aradhana attributes to the harassment of ruchika and her family by THOSE IN POWER.
Nineteen years later ,rathore walks away with 6 months of rigorous imprisonment and a 1000 rs fine and is out on bail.
Ruchika is no more breathing the life which she considered a curse for her and her family in this cruel world…..but i don’t think she is resting in peace…..like many other numerous cases even this case and its result will be washed away from our temoparory human memories and will be refreshed when some other ruchika will enter in this world……or i should say WE ‘ll reminisce ruchika when media ‘ll uncover some other such case….because as per as the former statement alot of ruchika dies every week and their hidden stories are closed even before getting opened with their graves.
People like YOU and me living a ‘normal’ life cant even imagine a bit of pain that her parents must have felt seeing their daughter lifeless even before death. You and me enjoying late night parties cant even feel what her parents must have felt when every night they lied on their bed sheding tears in remembrance of their beloved daughter and having a sleep full of nightmares consisting threats given by ‘those who are in power’ for taking their son’s life too.
Can you estimate the level of trauma which that girl who was too young even to understand the meaning of ‘molestation’ might have been going through before commiting suicide.?
Can you feel how the father of that teenage girl must have felt when instead of showing his volcanic grudge he cried on feet of ‘those who are in power’ pleading them to return his daughter’s dead body?
The issue is just not that a person in power did something so shameful…..
The issue is just not that after 16 long years the accused was punished by giving 6 month of rigorous jail …..
The issue is just not that there are uncountable such cases…..
But the issue is that instead of momentous anger why there is only momentarily anger?
the issue is that a public servant stabbed his master ….and his master is powerless to punish him…..
The issue is that {though momentarily } WE cluchted our teeth and tighten our fists but WE are powerless to punch it on the right place.
The issue is that when ruchika’s case was hitting the lines of every news paper there was still page 3 full of colourful life of people living ‘normal ‘lives…..
The issue is that when that poor girl was considering every breathe of her a pain for her near and dear ones….the accused was getting promoted and awarded for his contribution for public service .
The issue is that what are the ways by which WE can bring the change by ourselves instead of relying on some paralysed authorities to win the fight.
We have power but still WE don’t know how to use them…
WE are just all mouth warm blood …want a change but do not dare to bring the hidden hero out …..
WE are emotional but are WE some lachrymose youth…..
Knowingly or unknowingly WE have lost our direction of strength in the labyrinth of streets of self satisfaction,self development and self safety.
Are WE guys just to criticize or comment on an event after it has happened??
C’mon people our thoughts need to go beyond ‘just need of change’ and our reactions to actions against humanity should go beyond just an instant and expressing brief grief…..
Our mottos should now shift from “DO OR DIE” to “DO BEFORE YOU DIE”.
Surabhi
Jan 06, 2010 @ 12:33:58
hey hey……what happend to u suddenly………how u can be so senti!!!!!……..
really????……………..itni caring…….thoda senti…..emotional…………..these r the words for u n ur 3rd blog……
aur mai kya hi bolu iske liye……
why u used WE in red, eye catching…….what does this convey?
Jan 06, 2010 @ 14:42:37
hmmm….senti!!! woh toh pata nahi hu ya nahi….bus jo hai tumhare samne hai!!!!!
thanx 4 the comment!!!…:)
Jan 06, 2010 @ 13:34:48
its just b’coz some people not some but all people among us think d same way as others do
1)”WHO CARES”
2)”WHY SHOULD WE WASTE OUR TIME?”
3)”NO ONE CAB CHANGE DIS”
4)”AANKH KI JAGAH KAAN AUR KAAN KI JAGAH AANKH KARO”
5)”U CANT FIGHT ALONE WITH DEM”
6)”Y R U STTEPING IN BETWEN?”
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with these kind of attitudes we r never going to change dis country
and if wwe really wanna do so we NEED TO CHANGE ALL OUR ATTITUDES
1)FRGT ABOUT OTHERS FIGHT YURSELF AGAINST EVIL
SM1 WILL SURELY COME TO HELP U
2)IF U THINK Y SHOULD I START FIRST?
THERE R MANY OTHERS THINKING D SAME SO BETTER START YRSELF LET D COWARDS FOLLOW U
3)ITS NOLY WE WHO CAN START THE JOB DONT WAIT FR SM1 ELSE
IT WILL BE TOO LATE
4)THE BIGGEST PROBLEM IS CORRUPTION
WIN OVER IT AND ALL PROBLEMS ARE OVER
5)NEVER TAKE A BRIBE FRM SM1 OR GIVE IT AND STOP OTHERS FRM GIVING IT
CHANGE URSELF
START FRM URSELF AND NEAR1′S DEFINETLY U WILL CHANGE D WORLD
Jan 06, 2010 @ 19:39:19
hey….
thankx alot of such thought provoking comments……
u r absolutely rite in saying dat v need d change in our perception and the ways v deal wid social problems……
keep reading!!!!!
Jan 06, 2010 @ 13:41:53
hey geegs…u just rock!!!!
really it makes us to think again dat WE hv got boundless power n enthusiasm dat v can change dis world….bt WE dont even try 4 it….
so lets come together n lead humanity 2 do something better….
keep writing such inspirational articles…..ALL D BEST
Jan 06, 2010 @ 21:17:45
nice one.
good to see some great serious stuff after a few love bites !!!
waiting for ur next ………..
Snehil
Jan 07, 2010 @ 05:33:47
nicely written. good to c ppl do care about such case. hope we just dont move from jessica to ruchica to some other poor girl. wish it does come to an end
Jan 08, 2010 @ 17:49:54
wow yaar!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no wht i raed d frst blog af ma lyf n it ws 2 gud!!!!!!! its too embarrsng k ar socity s protctng such bastrds!!!!!!! nw its tim k v yuth av 2 cum in actn!!! v togthr can do wondrs!!!!!!!!!
chal al d bst!!!!!!
av fun!!!!!!!
Jan 09, 2010 @ 04:45:10
Hey! A very provoking article…i hope people who should be reading this article would read it and we dont have to see such mess happening again..keep writing…
Jan 10, 2010 @ 09:04:33
1st of all gud wrk ms 77….the topic chosen is really touching nd i really appreciate it…such topics need to b raised nd most importantly some actions r needed to b taken…bt before dat people have to realize d graveness of such things…n m proud of u fr doing such effort….i think nw its high time dat v just discuss such things wid intensity n just nt feel pity over it nd forget d things…d quote is very apt-do before u die….
chalo ab aapki khushi k liye ye bhi likh hi dete hain..writing style ws also machauu…esp wo wala part “d issue is just ne…..d issue is…..”…
ab agle me udayenge aapki is baar bakhsh diya……
Jan 10, 2010 @ 09:11:04
@surbhi….kanika…n ankita…
thanx alot for ur comments!!! n its nice to knw dat d write up provoked seriousness of such issues!!!!
@snehil…..
it often happens….after love bites seriousness arises in a person….hai naa!!!:P
thanx for the comment…keep reading!!!
@akshi…
THANX A TON madam….aapne humare blog ko padha aur us pr BADA sa comment kiya ….thanx once again!!!:P
yep u r absolutelt rite in saying dat reactions to such actions need gr8 intensity!!!!!
THANX again ki aap ne humari nahi chop kari:P…..aasha hai aap aage bhi aissa kuch nahi karengi……kripya padhte rahe aur sirf hamari khushi k liye nahi…..apni khushi k liye bhi comment karte rahe…..:)
Jan 10, 2010 @ 11:06:20
Hey Surbhi,
It’s wonderful to see on your blog, a post intended for social awareness. Often people tend to blog only about their daily lives, and it’s heartening to see this. U have made me think about the hypocrisy of these statements: “YOU are the future of the country”>> blah blah blah.. Coz when we come and say we want to do something, every1 says, “Don’t mess with these people, they’re make your life living hell.” Yes, we are being taught to be afraid.
Your post was very inspiring and an eye-opener. We really are too caught up in, as u say, a maze of “SELF development, SELF satisfaction and SELF safety”
P.S. I really like ur background template, too.
Jan 10, 2010 @ 12:29:07
hey surabhi..
a wonderful article…really moving..hope it helps in awakening in a lot of minds…splendid effort yaar!
Jan 10, 2010 @ 12:50:56
hey surabhi..
a wonderful article…really moving..hope it helps in awakening of a lot of minds…splendid effort yaar!
Jan 11, 2010 @ 11:23:46
hey surabhi…dose were very inspiring words from ya….indeed i think its nt jus tym to follow d crowd n do wateva is recommended to b rite or actually “Safer” BUT go beyond d so called “limits” n fite for wat actually is rite or in other words wats most required to make dis world better place…..all d best for ur blog…gud goin…take care
Jan 12, 2010 @ 06:33:15
hey, really a gud one , and on absolutely the ryt topic!!… d style was also awesumm!!… it really made me thnik abt our weknesses!!..hope d message passes on to all!!!…keep writing dear!
Jan 17, 2010 @ 20:57:07
Mind blowing!
You write awesome. People cant take away the attention from your writing.. So descriptive yet so catchy.. So senti yet so inspirational..I’m a fan of your writing!
Keep writing!
Jan 17, 2010 @ 21:15:30
@apoorv
thanx for the inspiring wrds of urs…..:)
i m really glad to get appreciation frm sum one who himself is a stud writer!!!
hop u may lyk d new ones too!!!!!
keep reading!!!
Jan 17, 2010 @ 21:35:10
first of all….wud say….xtremely gud wrk!!!!
bilkul bhi change nahi hai thots….still standing on principles n still holding the uniqueness of ur thinking!!!!!!
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nicely written …….n even u knw dat u can write even better daN dis…..
sooo just keep goin!!!!!
wid all ma wishes!!!
Feb 19, 2010 @ 09:55:30
Everyone says I want it, I will, I should…
Change that to WE… WE WILL and that adds to the voice and a louder US would be able to stand against the DEAF GOVERNMENT.
Nice write up. Keep it up. Thoughts provoke, one day we may see the action.
May 12, 2010 @ 14:00:14
A really nice post….