the noughts and crosses…2nd sem!!

After knocking around insti-hostel-insti for one  more semester the summer marked the end of all college fun. Back to home with hell lot of memories to reminisce ,numerous  moments to cherish and uncountable things t o work on. Like the first sem  each day of the 2nd sem unfolded with a new lesson to learn and with a new change  to assimilate. Comparatively the lessons were more ,changes were  sudden and the relations were intense. Unlike 1st sem   I was not a mere  freshman for   accepting the way my universe came  to me with all the changes. Each dawn presented  a change.

a change in myself ….to carry out ..to implement.

A change in my vicinity …to accept…to bear…to abide.

A change….t o stand the all other changes….to envisage the coming ones.

I feel myself more  ensconced  over here but still don’t know why at times I feel the goosebumbs in the same way I used to feel in my first week when I landed in this heavenly place……the views are changed though.  The sem  helped me to become a better person by turning me bad in a way….a better person who can survive amid the best ones.  I believe I gained a higher  level of maturity .   The rudiments  are crossed now….may be!!

What was my 2nd sem made of?? …I’ve been cogitating on this  question many times even when I was going through it.

The blog is certainly gonna contain the descriptions of the people who have played an nevitable  role in influencing my life over here.

ACADS  ,events and the course advisor….

Moral  of everything that I did in this sem in regard of acadamics and performances in events is that  when you wish for a tag of being a winner….the preliminary step for it is to accept that you are a looser. When you accept that you are a looser the only and  very major difference that helps you is that things become very easy for you to grasp and your mind cooperates with your heart to bring the best positive output from your body

And rest depends on the very fact that what kind of a looser you are? If you are a hopeless looser you may certainly remain a looser  forever .  To win everything that you desire and to achieve everything that you  think you deserve you should be a prentice and  a looser who loves to learn.

By this time I proudly accept that I M a looser.

Acadamics were not at all improved overall. Though a lilltle change was there. The score before majors was pretty decent …(atleast for me). The credit goes to my course advisor “shilpi ma’m”  who  underwent my childish complaints about the system and how my  tendency to get deviated from studies is fully justified.  Had it not been her maturity and motherly behavior  her explaination (fundae) would not have even touched me. Though I screwed my majors .  if  m allowed to give an excuse I would just say “over night studies is not my cup of tea ”. But for the matter of fact excuses never leads anyone  to success.

XANTHRONS…..

The first floor of kailash was more than a home for me.  Though I was one among those who   never showed their  face in any of the birthday parties or get together ( just  3 bdays in 2 sems)   I m fond of every bit  of my life with these angles. The gal gossips …the discussion of the other species in IIT… the  puns …the non veg talks…the numrous  public wardrobes ….. feeling the existence of love between two  even before the two themselves realize and predicting the compatibility of the existing love birds……the lost and found  things ………celebration with ghar ka khaana ( thanx to some kind delhites)……all time available shoulder to cry upon and make you feel “ one for all …all for one ” ….. every bit of it is  has  improved and is improving as it was never before.

From the bottom of my heart  I just wanna say  I   love you girls…..and m grateful to have an  ultra machax family away from home  !!!

(BTW,….  Birthday party se yaad aaya…. Akshi ,surbhi(garg), sarneet and few more are left to throw a party…. When is it dude??)

POLTU…PYAAR AUR WOH  ….

I guess I have discussed it a lot and  I have wasted a good deal of energy   and time on it. ..https://surabhi007.wordpress.com/2010/03/28/poltu-pyaar-aur-woh/

HEARTBEATS AND HEARTBREAKS……

Hmmm….had a beautiful time in falling in love and then getting up:P   from the melancholic time to cheerful hours …from pensive moods to pollyannaish states…everything ruled the semester with the perfect charm. simply adored the beautiful relations in my world and hoping to nourish the bonds for  the better strength.

WHAT else you wish for…..

# tring tring…..

YOU: “haan bol!!”

ME: “yaar ..lunch kar liya..??!! mess mein kadi bani hai”

YOU: “WIND T IN 5 min..LP chalte hai.”

When you have a cool gang of friends to  hang out with  ….to just give a ring  even for silly reasons  and find them near you in seconds…..when LP and hallstick become your daily mess and when you don’t have to pay for it   always:D :D

Especial thanx to keshav,janmejay sir,snehil and aditya.

## tring tring

YOU: “hello”

ME.:Yaaaarr…..m in sickbay.

YOU:” WHY? WHAaat happened??? You fine??? “

ME:”everything is fine except that I missed my PHL major exam!!!! “

YOU:wtf!!!

When you have people  around you to accept you the way you are and are ready to come along even when you act as a psycho.  heart felt apologies to my dearest friends who  bear all my arbit and weird (at times) behaviour and managing with me in all  abnormal situations. for  listening my free k fundae , sharing my immature thoughts and at times suffering under my unendurable  extra dose of maturity.

i would be very remiss if i didnt mention some of such  generous souls who have always been there to support whenever i boobled every unobvious situation…..

wishing ”the”  forever  friendship with all of you…. charu,mitali,snigdha,nishant,shruti,shachi,roomie, apoorv and “THE STREET PLAY PARIVAR” .

the uncomparable  facchihood…..

I m eternally grateful for the wholesomeness of my seniors cum friends who were all time ready with thier fundae to heal…to console…to share…to celebrate….to throw a treat… “fakke k advantages,” “relations and their functions”, “attitude and altitude” “responsibilities and vellapanti” …..just make a wish and the GURUs will be there. i whole heartedley wish to stay your facchi forever and  stay as a kid for you.

love you all!!

the journey so far is simply memorable ,  endearing and worth treasuring. all set  to take new resolutions for the approaching semester  ….(goona stick to all my promises is hitting the list in the first place) .

journey se yaad aaya…….

## tring tring…

ME: yaaar …i missed my train.

YOU: come back! :)

“THE AJ DUO”…i m extremely sorry! ;) !

24 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Nishant Jaiswal
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 08:36:44

    kuch b kaho par ab tak wo DARD nai gaya…. its hard to give-up!!!!

    oh u gals also have dose “discussions of other species in IIT D, …. non veg talks ”

    “HEARTBEATS AND HEARTBREAKS!!”…….sum1 lost his EDWARD… oh no!!!

    Tring tring wala to mast tha chops…..if m not wrong it was only once in a week stuff, no??

    fakke k khoob advantage mile hai….. try dis in next sem too….

    and aftrall it was all machax(as usual)……. hey y dont you try to write a book. you can write a book for this 2 sem…… :P m laughing but its true, try 4 it. we are having another chetan bhagat and harsh snehanshu with us…
    ALL THE BEST… chop!!

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  2. Nishant Jaiswal
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 08:42:19

    thanx a lot for my name in forever friends**

    ** conditions apply..

    dont wanna disclose d conditions

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  3. Kanika Khanna
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 09:29:41

    Good one…but u mature?haha..u still seem to be a kid dear..and yup the “heartbeats and heartbreaks”..u shud hv exaggerated that section a bit more :P
    good luckfor ur next sem..hope it is full of more adventures for u so that u can write some more interesting stuffs!

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  4. Snigdha
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 10:22:00

    mahau ladki…really liked this one…
    vaise thoda sa arbit lga…..i mean there was sth of eth….i prefer it the odr way..
    n yeah…r heartbreak…i disclosed it…right?…yupiee..
    wahaan par bhi meranaam aana chahiye..:P:P
    n yeah..thanx for the forever friends waala part…
    good going..!!!

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  5. surabhi yadav
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 11:23:45

    @nishant…..EDWARD!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrr !!!! i meant in a bit serious context. huh!
    n yeah “kadi” in mess was once in week matter but LP n hallstick were more frequent!!
    MUJHE FAKKA NAHI LAGA HAI ABHI TAK.,…:p:p :p
    thanx for the appreciation…
    but comaprison kuch jyaada bade logo se ho gaya…..un dono bahut jyaada stud hai…..wud definately try though!!!! :)

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  6. surabhi yadav
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 11:29:27

    @kanika…
    thanx sweety….. yeah I M MATURED!!!! B-) sahii mein I M!!!! :)
    n thats true i think i should write nther blog on heartbeats and heartbreaks!!
    @snigdha…
    “really” liked…yeh really ka funda kya hai be…isse phele k saare comments fraud hai kya:P :P
    yeah the write up is kinds arbit….xactly the way my 2nd sem was….;)
    n offcourse….u were the ANGEL who bestowed me wid the super information …heatr break!!! :P :P ma special thankx to you for that!!!

    luv ya all…!!

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  7. sakshi
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 14:51:14

    hey…too gud!… dat machax family f hostel..just loved it!… nd ist year was worth to be treasured!.. nice one!

    have a nice journey ahead too…good luck! :D

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  8. surabhi yadav
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 15:11:01

    @sakshi…yeah…1st year….almost same for all of us…simply beautiful!!
    thanx !! n wish ya the same! :)

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  9. Snigdha
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 17:13:45

    lol..
    liked the previous ones also….esp the poem..
    and yeah…this comes second….
    i guess second sem sabhi ka abit tha…

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  10. jassi
    Jun 13, 2010 @ 21:55:40

    kehna padega chop…..u have borne a lot…and thats why the changes come to you. don’t blame urself if u think you’ve changed to “bad”…..maybe u’ve just learnt what life is all about and this,i am sure, is not an easy thing to grasp.Keep smiling
    P.S…..whenever free, im always interested in ur G-talks…:-)

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  11. surabhi yadav
    Jun 14, 2010 @ 14:48:52

    @snigdha… glad to confirm the authenticity of previous comments!!
    keep reading and keep ranking ;)
    @jassi
    i m absolutely nt “blaming” myself for nething xcept for the mugai thing :( …i know later or sooner i av to bring all those changes in me n accept the changes around me:)

    thanx!!
    G talk…..ahaan!!! i bet its nt that spicy as ur “nar nar ” baatein!!! ;D

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  12. DK
    Jun 14, 2010 @ 18:28:12

    nice n well written :)

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  13. snehilbasoya
    Jun 14, 2010 @ 20:58:09

    Your best blog ever, and I mean it. Not because u were using some vocabs or some new techniques of writing, but because of your thoughts, when they finally seem to reach some conclusion, when your thoughts seem to turn into solid opinions, when you know what all you EXACTLY did and what you HAVE to do from now ……… I loved it !!!

    However, need to say a few things.
    *Acads and the Loser Theory – I dont agree. In fact, I agree partially, will talk when you come back.
    *Heartbreaks – I was never told of anything of that sort !!!! What is this fachchi ??????
    *Hostel Friends – Since you were so much busy in your DnD as well as your Street Play Parivar, it is obvious that you will get much less time with your hostel friends to hang-out. It happens with DnD people, has happened with me too. You cant be everywhere, but you will have to make proper balance between your respective devotion of time ………

    and no LPs from this sem yaar ……… what about Subway for this sem !!!!

    God Bless You
    Snehil

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  14. surabhi yadav
    Jun 14, 2010 @ 21:29:10

    @snehil…
    “Your best blog ever, and I mean it.”… now this is something which means alot to me….ALOT!!!
    #the loser theory…..hmmmm…sure !! wud luv discussing it netym….just wishing v may not end up arguing!!!
    #heartbreaks …:D
    #dnd and balance….. lets hope for the best…looking forward for better managment of tym n energy!!
    #LP v/s subway……super fyn!!! yo!!! n especially wid u….ne where dude…kaho toh oberoi ya taj bhi chal sakte hai chill maarne… u c ..i neva pay when u r wid mee!!! :D :D :D sooo venue ..no bar for mee!!!

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  15. rohit keshri
    Jun 15, 2010 @ 19:16:17

    simply i want to say ,,,,,,,,” KEEP IT UP YAAR ,,,, “

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  16. rohit keshri
    Jun 15, 2010 @ 19:19:00

    “other species of iit……….. ” ha,,,
    how this one stroke to ur mind !!,,,
    gr8 one,,, ;)

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  17. keshav
    Jun 15, 2010 @ 20:26:46

    Arre chop kya likha hai!!!:D ……. arguably the best way to chronicle your experiences…… this is what you will read many years hence and smile

    But perhaps you would not like to call yourself a looser…. rather a learner would be the right word.. what say??

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  18. keshav
    Jun 15, 2010 @ 20:31:50

    nd yeah…. I think you meant to say that you were a ‘loser’… the one who does not win…… not a ‘looser’…. something that is not tight :P :P

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  19. surabhi yadav
    Jun 16, 2010 @ 16:04:07

    @rohit…
    thanx!! feels gr8 wheneva i see a comment of a person who doent lyk reading blogs ;)
    keep reading!! :)
    @keshav…. :)
    yeah ….but i guess this is still a ver yshor tdescription…i av skipped sum real poetential incidences …..:D :D
    n i as i have mentioned ….m a loser …NT LOOSER …who luves learning n who is ready to learn more n more!!!
    hamari grammmar hodi LOOSE hai :P thanx for noticing !!! :)

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  20. surabhi yadav
    Jun 16, 2010 @ 16:05:30

    @dakshita….thanx!! :)

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  21. rohit keshri
    Jun 17, 2010 @ 04:47:03

    oye kisne kaha i dont lyk reading blogs ,,,
    yea, pehle kabhi aise blog dikhe nhi na ,,

    Reply

  22. surbhi
    Aug 23, 2010 @ 18:35:28

    yar sorry for reading the blog so late!!!!!
    bt dis one is sooo sweet!!!!! u hv opened ur heart in such a lovely way!!!!

    i just luv dis one….
    n yeah thanx a lot for forever friendship wala part…..luv u geegs!!!!
    n han most importantly maine treat di thi n u were nt dr in d hostel dat day toooo!!!!!!!! huh…. :P :D

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  23. surabhi
    Aug 23, 2010 @ 22:23:55

    hey sweetheart!
    m really amazed to c ur comment over here so late! i mean how cum u read this blog arbitly! :O
    neway ….i wud always cherish the friendship wid my silent roomie! :) :) <3
    n treat k liye toh kya hi bolu main!! :( :( kat gaya pichli saal ..abki baaar kisi ki nahi choroungi! :) ;D

    luv ya too! :)

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